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یہ دور بھی  گزر جائے  گا۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔ یہ دور بھی گذر جائے گا  اہک ایسی بات ہے جو  اگر ایک انسان  اپنی زندگی میں اپنا لے گا  تو کسی بھی مشکل وقت  کسی بھی مشکل حالات  میں سے بہ آسانی  نکل جاۓ گا۔ وقت مشکل  ضرورہو سکتا ہے اور    ازیت ناک بھی ۔اور برا بھی ہوسکتا ہے۔مگر یہ ایک احساس، ایک خیال  کہ کوئی بھی  وقت،حالات  ہمیشہ  نہیں  رہنے والے،ہر  دور کا  وقت  گذر جاتا ہے،انسان  کو راحت دللا سکتا ہے ۔ یہاں ایک  کہانی یاد آتی ہے ۔۔۔۔۔۔۔ وقت مشکل ہے پر یہ وقت گزر جائے گا ابراہیم نوریسی بادشاہ نے اپنے ملک سے تمام پڑھے لکھے، عقلمند اور عالم قسم کے لوگوں‌کو جمع کیا اور ان سے پوچھا کہ کیا کوئی ایسا مشورہ، منتر یا مقولہ ہے کہ جس کو ہر قسم کے حالات میں استمال کیا جاسکے، ہر صورتحال اور ہر وقت میں اس ایکبات  سے کام چل جائے۔ کوئی ایسا مشورہ جو کہ میں اگر اکیلے میں ہوں‌اور میرے ساتھ کوئی مشورہ کرنے والا نہ ہو تب بھی مجھے اس کا فائدہ ہو؟  تمام لوگ بادشاہ کی اس خواہش کو سن کر پریشا...

Mind set Mindset is an "established set of attitudes, esp. regarded as typical of a particular group's social or cultural values; the outlook, philosophy, or values of a person; (now also more generally) frame of mind, attitude, recreation anddisposition.A mindset may also arise from a person's brought up environment, it's very effective tool in setting up mindset A firmly established mindset could create a powerful incentive to adopt or accept prior behaviors, choices, or tools, sometimes referred to as congenital Within behaviour, the mind thinking looks normal apparently but we witnesse lot of variations in the behavoiur good or bad. If it is bad it creats problems for individual,  its nearers and dearers often the mnd set donot accept what he is asked to do intead wantsforces to dohis own which is not good for him conceptualizations of mindset shift "to the varied definitions and conceptualizations" which "demarcates this literature via a...

Expectations. Expectations .........expections when not fulfilled deject the person and can prove disastrous..... They sometimes pave the way for depressions ..strand relations even among the kith-n-kin. Anonymity is another sequel.  What is the expectation....it is perhaps the feeling of getting something in return from anyone or something good...something what you feel to be,  something you anticipate  in return after you do something good to anyone. Expectations are the root of all heartache.” “Expectations are the enemy of happiness.” “Expecting someone to change for you is a recipe for disaster.” “The only thing you should expect from a relationship of any sort is to be with someone who respects and loves you for who you are. Never expect anything in return after you favor, do something for someone 

  The great solace... That person is having more or better status than me..,he is healthy and wealthy than me.My close relative have lot of property than me.some one is a pity employee than me still affords luxuries......etc etc.....why i dont have...why why....wut is lacking in me to be like them....these thinkings..thoughts disturb us...many people get frustrated..in an endeavour to be like that ..to have like that....they try all nonsence but cant....in such situations the great solace is to look towards the people who are down to ur status  property health and wealth....In Case God had  made u one among those people who are far below to you in status, health and wealth.......to be contented with whatever is bestowed to u is the great solace......let us not forget that creater has made us with some level of capasity....He is the best judge....let us not try to go beyond that.....in case we we try and don't get you will be definitely in difficulties 😔😔😔

Winter Winter Summer Winter  Summer  T he cycle of life.  Close resemblance with the seasons, Like wise life too passes through seasons. Give a thought to it you will come to know that like seasons life too never stays at a fixed place.Life too Withers, decays and finally dies.  In the cycle of life, first comes spring which is childhood, then comes summer which is adolescence, then comes fall which is youth, then winter which is middle towards old age, and in the meantime, life produces new lives to start the cycle again from spring.    Four Noble Truths. According to the Buddha, the real nature of the life and universe is nothing other than suffering, the cause of suffering, the cessation of suffering and the way leading to the cessation of suffering. The Four Noble Truths are the Samsara, Attachment and Impermanence are elucidated. Samsara is the eternal life cycle of birth, life, death and rebirth. Attachments are simple beliefs or delusions that become...

  Life occupies space but has no weight.... ... Life..... what it is?  Being born to thrive for what..? To die....whatever ur with status rich or poor..good or bad ugly or handsome aged or young male or female....the reality is one has to die... whatever comforts or miseries ur with..u can not be spared... well we ignore when we are life that we have to die....nothing can prevent us from death even not ur wealth or health.....this ignorance in the life leads us to the state of forgetting the goal of life which is only and only death.......life is actually the path leading to The Death......

 Mistakes or misfortunes Life has so many things for everyone to see perform to go through...bad things and good things...in this discourse, we sometimes feel we have made mistakes.... these mistakes in a real sense change the course of one's life throughout.. the life becomes the bed of thorn soring wounds and one can not go back and correct such mistakes....heart bleeds but this bleeding can not be stopped..it continues often till the end...I believe these are not mistakes but misfortunes stored in one's destiny which happens through what we call mistakes......

  Celebrations….. celebrations are always related to peace of mind in case it is lacking celebration becomes a dull affair... What actually peace of mind is..” varying degrees of ease “assurance, freedom from worry. Free of stress state. A state without a war Freedom from oppressive thoughts or emotions A state of independence from the storm or disturbance A peace of mind is the opposite of anxiety, people often take measures to attain it and so speak and write of it in such traumatic events ruin people's peace of mind. This can be put as...... peaceful society and a beautiful world Surrounding yourself with those who are stressed or unhappy can increase your levels of stress and unhappiness Calm, calmness, heartsease, peacefulness, placidity, sereneness, serenity, tranquillity just a celebration without the real spirit of celebration of its ethos its virtue makes it to think whether to celebrate or not. The cause difficult unpleasant feelings can be internal or external…in inte...